So this guy and I had a date planned in like, January, which he cancelled at the last minute citing “thinking with his dick” regrets, and since then he’s been popping up every few weeks with new profiles sending me increasingly insane messages. Dodged a bullet, there.
I’ve noticed a trend with men who are over my age limit and think it’s all right to message me anyway. There is frequently a reference to younger women being more “adventurous”. What they mean is that women their age know what they want and tell them so. This, along with the exotification of my sexuality is completely unacceptable. My age does not mean that I don’t know what I want. My sexuality is not there to entice you.