he literally just opened with this message. i’ve never spoken a word to him before in my life.
Q:Thought you guys would enjoy this gem I found on a rando's profile: "Smartest guy who will ever give you a chance. I enjoy playing games if I can figure out which game you're playing, otherwise I'm just confused. Generally, it will be you who's confused. I like to argue and play devil's advocate so I'll probably be annoying, not that supportive because I don't like agreeing with people. But I'm empathetic to the point of being psychic so although I'll always know exactly how you feel."
WHAT A WINNER. I think of all the shit things people write on OKC, a condescending and yet clearly baseless conviction of their own intellectual superiority is my least favourite.
I mean, if you’re military I guess that’s different and I will of course do what ever you’d like me to. Oh wait, no.
Q:I started talking to a girl recently on OKC and despite the fact that she has responded every time within a couple hours and we've been able to joke around and such, I feel like she's not that into it. I find myself having to constantly drive conversation and while she always replies pretty quickly, I never get more than a sentence or two out of her and she'll often just respond to one point I give her. I find I'm running out of conversation topics and since she never asks me anything I'm (cont)
feeling like I should just trail off the conversation. Despite this, she’s still replying straight away, and her profile indicates she doesn’t respond to many guys, so that’s telling me she must have SOME interest, right? I don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m working hard to get very little back and maybe it’s not worth my time, but conflicted because she’s still showing the same amount of interest as she was before, even if that’s only a few words.
I’d say just ask her out. It can be very hard to gauge interest online. She might be trying to slow fade you, she might be boring, she might just not be very good at talking online, this sounds like it could be a lot of things. If you just ask her if she wants to meet, you’ll have an answer about whether she’s interested or not, and you’ll find out whether she’s better in person. But remember that you get to keep re-evaluating whether you’re interested too! Don’t feel there’s any reason why you have to keep putting in work to interest her, if she isn’t remaining interesting to you. This goes both ways. - A.
I will say this for okcupid, they are usually good at deleting accounts when people send shit like this. Always report, because it does work.
Q:Sorry, I know this is unrelated, but do you guys happen to know if i-once-had-a-guy-tell-me is ever coming back?
We don’t know what this is about, sorry - anyone have any ideas?
He sent me multiple messages that I didn’t respond to, and when I respond with my disinterest I get told I’m rude for not being interested? What even?
S: Would he have preferred it if you said “Piss off, motherfucker?”
He was just lying about the things he wrote that I find morally repugnant. And it’s okay he totally knows a black person.