So when my profile specifically says that I’m looking for locals only, that doesn’t mean that I want to have a one night stand with someone who is just passing through. Nor do I want to be skype friends.
P.S. - If you are going to blatantly ignore things I spell out in my (painfully brief) profile, that means you don’t respect what I want. That is a red flag to me, and you will not get laid.